what
no matter what you do..there will be people who disagree with your ways.
we were insensitive.but there are some things..which were purely misunderstandings..
it was meant to be a prelude..so that we could actually get around to talking to her about the matter...we also wanted to know how she felt about it..and how we could possibly solve the underlying problems..
it wasnt meant to be a confrontation.it wasnt meant to be a bitchfest.it wasnt meant to be a group of people gathering to shoot one person down..
we cant expect her to change so that we can feel better..its important that she feels happy about what shes doing..so as guys.we have to accommodate...we're guys..
we cant change her..she has the rights to be who she wants to be..as friends/classmates.we can give her suggestions on certain areas..whether she changes or not..we cannot decide..and we can only accept her choice.
our mannerism was wrong.from the start.
ON A TOTALLY DIFFERENT NOTE
i know i cant change anything alr..its been such a long time..just accept it and move on with my own life la..through so many other things.i've realised that some things, are just things that happen and they just happen due to many reasons.and...after they happen, you just cant change it back..because it does not only concern you...to repair it.you need to change the views of the people concerned.you need to show them that they were wrong about you..and a whole lot of other stuff.
hahah.knowing you cant change anything..the feeling kinda sucks eh? well..it doesnt suck that much alr la..yeahh.smile more and be happier..benefits everybody.lol
ciao
#14
12:14 AM
